So which truly is the BEST in COLORADO?

I am a soldier currently deployed to Afghanistan and I will be coming home for a little R&R in February shortly before Valentines Day. I am planning a very romantic trip for my girlfriend of 3 1/2 years and myself, and I have this image in my head of what I want, but no clue if even such a place exists. So, I am wondering if anyone could give me some suggestions on the best place to book a vacation in Colorado based off my criteria. I want to get a cabin in the woods by a lake type deal, but still quite close to the slopes for some skiing. I want a private hot tub, fireplace, etc…basically the works! This is quite possibly going to be the most memorable vacation of our lives because, as I said, we’ve been dating for 3 1/2 years…and the time has come for that question, get me? I want the setting, the mood, everything to be perfect. Any suggestions??

Is it ok to go skinny dipping with a co worker?

I was invited over to my co worker Jackies house and she has a big hot tub and it was basically her, co workers Laura and Tiffany. We actually are all just good friends and colleagues but this time the happy hour took a weird turn. Laura, Jackie, and Tiffany all wanted to go into the hot tub and they had their suits with them and I didn’t. So, I respectfully declined but Jackie said just go nude and it wasnt a big deal. So after twisting my arm by all the ladies (yes we were drinking) I took off all my clothes and the second I got nude, I felt really weird because there I stood there about an inch and I felt as if it was six eyes just ogling at me before I got in the hot tub trying their best not to laugh at it. But while we were in the tub, I felt weird the entire time being naked. No sexual contact took place but as a guy, I did get an erection and it wouldnt come down. When we all got out, there I was with a 3.5 inch erection and then giggles came. Did I make a mistake?

Pregnant and dealing w/ future MIL who invited ex gf that fianc’e cheated on me with to funeral?

I had a funeral to attend for fianc’e mom’s side. I helped out the best I could by getting the deceased outfit together and spending many hours making a photo collage (tri-fold- like a big scrapbook page.) This was to be my fianc’e mom’s job- but i took it of her plate.I kept out select photos that would involve any embarassing past moments/loves. And all photos dealing with potential infidelity of the deceased.

Well- at the funeral turns out his mom invited past gf that he cheated on my with. Yes she knows- she was on the trip- and this was to a special place for the both of us- so I thought. He lied all about it and who she was- but I have photos the mom took of them in the hot tub- her in the bed- their hands all over each other. Very hurtful.

This is not the first time the woman has shown up at family functions. Is a heads up too much to ask?

Partner thinks I should suck it up and put on a happy face and deal with it/ get over it. I asked him how everyone would feel if I had invited the said person in the photos or used any of those? Should they suck it up and get over it. I just wanted some understanding- yet I could not even find him when she was there all that time- finally did- with his mom.

Future MIL has done many hurtful things to me in the past. (Borderline illegal things.) And I thought as we went through all those photo albums that things would be different. Yet still I remained guarded- as she seems to always back-stab me somehow.

Oh- and BTW I am pregnant and really not feeling well at all. :p

I understand the future MIL can have whom she pleases to make her feel better. Just to let me know would have been nice. Or to even say she meant to or ??? Yes, and pregnancy hormones do make me feel nutso sometimes .. :0

So what is the best way to deal with this type of thing? TU.
I am actually staring to believe she did it on purpose. Obviously infidelity was discussed beforehand- as we looked through all those albums. Obviously so was being respectful and not using ones that showed ex’s etc. I guess I was really hoping that I WOULD not be the one to have to tell her what bad manners it was. As if my family did that to my pregnant fiance’ I would sure let them know that it was NOT appreciated.

So what is the best way to deal with it? Send the mother/family a note to tell them I will no longer attend these things?

Oh- in the past- she has allowed my fiance’s teen to steal and destroy my propery- I found out a few days later and as he was screaming at me that these things now belonged to her- she chimed in that she knew for two days and kept quiet. Then even after that- I tried to have a nice family dinner. (Fiance’, his two teens, her and my dd.) First thing she says is how “I can’t believe I am here- when I have company down at my place and I should be .
Teens ask who- and it is the ex gf- and they now want to go and see her. This also very much hurt my dd. (Oh, and fiance’ was not even at the dinner- as he ran to see a friend.)

i can’t put up with HERR in his life anymore!!?

here’s the deal — my best guy friend and i talk about everything. we don’t hang out that much anymore just because of different work/sports/school/etc schedules anymore,, but we’re still really close.
but my other friend, a girl, recently started hanging out with him alot. i guess it started out with like two times i couldn’t make it or whatever, and i was really excited because i’m also friends with her!

but now she makes fun of me in front of him all the time, and he’s always really busy doing things with her and his other friends.. ((who i’ve never really gotten too close to, but that never changed how close we were)).. and lately she’s been really flirty,, like OVER the top. ((asking how her boobs look in a shirt, inviting him to her hot tub..))

and she’s got a boyfriend! who she just got back together with!!

and through all this i can’t even get a word in with either of them. and i don’t feel like calling him anymore because she’s always with him!

but today at school she was sick.. and he and i were back to normal,,, and it was so much nicer. i missed him like hell, and i realized that there’s no way i want to lose him as a friend.

so how do i deal with her!!!??

how can i fix this situation!? please help me =( ?

here’s the deal — my best guy friend and i talk about everything. we don’t hang out that much anymore just because of different work/sports/school/etc schedules anymore,, but we’re still really close.
but my other friend, a girl, recently started hanging out with him alot. i guess it started out with like two times i couldn’t make it or whatever, and i was really excited because i’m also friends with her!

but now she makes fun of me in front of him all the time, and he’s always really busy doing things with her and his other friends.. ((who i’ve never really gotten too close to, but that never changed how close we were)).. and lately she’s been really flirty,, like OVER the top. ((asking how her boobs look in a shirt, inviting him to her hot tub..))

and she’s got a boyfriend! who she just got back together with!!

and through all this i can’t even get a word in with either of them. and i don’t feel like calling him anymore because she’s always with him!

but today at school she was sick.. and he and i were back to normal,,, and it was so much nicer. i missed him like hell, and i realized that there’s no way i want to lose him as a friend.

so how do i deal with her!!!??
uhm,, yeah,, i KNOW i’m jealous